PESSIMISTIC OPTIMISM!!

There has always been a common misconception in the way the society views the people who are branded as PESSIMISTS ! People always look down on them as if they are not at all humans! The sickest part is that the society tries to seclude these people. The reason for this is heart wrecking..The reason that people give is that these so called pessimists are usually believed to dissipate their negativity to those in vicinity! How lame the reason is! This is seriously a matter of concern. It is not very difficult to be positive always when you are surrounded by people who are all optimists! It is no big deal.. But there real extremity of your optimism can be at its maximum display only when you are in the company of someone who is actually a person who sees the negative side of life! The clash between the two energies will ultimately decide the level of your optimism! In my opinion, you have the right to call yourself a colorful person only if you can actually make a transformation in the negativity dragging it towards positivity! And as such, i have a strong conviction that there is no such person in the world who is actually incorrigible in any aspect! These so-called negative thinkers owe their thoughts and actions to the path of life that they have trodden on so far! Any devastating incident or anybody whom they have come across so far who has been much of a torture to them are all key factors that snatch a lion's share in their negative thinking! Nobody loves to be dull... With most of the people who think themselves to be dull, it is just a virtual wall that they erect surrounding themselves! Everybody....everybody who lives on this earth has got the thirst to feel free, to take wings and soar up in life staying aloof of all rubbish that life sometimes throws upon us! It is just that some people realize it by themselves , some realize it very late, and still.. some are in need of the way feeling so desperate deep down inside hoping that somebody would really show them a way, but still hesitant to ask for help due to ego! So it is just not their mistake that they are negative minded! So it is not the case of just changing the way they think... it is more of changing any of these factors that attribute to it! And if you think you are an optimist, please do take care to spread the vast expanse of positivity in a lighter way rather than abusing people who think negative....After all IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO LIGHT A CANDLE THAN CURSE THE DARKNESS!!

Every person on this earth is an individual with passions, emotions and desires of their own. The phenomenon of variability has been created by the lord for enjoying the vast differences that reign the earth. If it were not for these differences we would have got easily bored of life. The human race, which is considered the most superior on earth has its uniqueness only due to the difference in thoughts that define the sheer existence of it. But it is sometimes so very heart wrecking to see people aspire to be someone whom they are not. The reason they give for this aspiration is that they see themselves as a failure and someone else as a huge success. So naturally they tend to imitate that person in thoughts and action. But they make a terrible mistake of losing or demolishing the real person that they actually are in the process of transformation.I would not even call it as transformation.. it is mere imitation. but people fail to realize the fact that by doing this, they actually become very less successful than what they were earlier! For example a student who has been a late bloomer for a long time who is a night hawk decides upon improving himself and starts imitating all the activities of a studious friend of his who is an early bird, he must only try to use his technique to study and not his study timings. If he imitates him exactly, he is done for. He would most probably be more of a failure than what he was before with his health side getting badly affected along with poor concentration of mind during his new study time! So if at all people need to change, the individuality should be kept as a base and any ravage to it must be prevented. It is only then true extremity of one's capacity can be tapped effectively!